It is better to make love than to make points. You'll also usually "score" more ("points") if you let others know they are welcome to come well (as they are) - and to share your point of view or bring their own.
Commentators and common taters, spectators and expectators are welcome to share any perspectives guarding or regarding expressions and impressions of love and language (related to this post) in the comment section - or in the no comment sex shun.